• Young people are asked to stand in a circle or around a table, everyone must be able to see all the participants

• A player is designated to start, he thinks of a person in the circle, speaks and must describe him.

The game is more fun if it starts from the most vague to the most precise

• And everyone else in the circle has to guess who he's thinking of.

For example, he says: "My secret crush... is a girl"; he leaves time for the others to start guessing. Then he continues: "My secret crush ... has black hair"

• It is interesting to give, apart from the physical adjectives, adjectives which also describe the person

For example: "My secret crush... is very creative"; or "My secret crush favorite food is... lok lak!" ...

• And so on until one of the participants finds the Secret Crush.
• It is then up to him to play, he thinks of someone and resumes: "My Secret Crush is..."

CONCRETELY :

• When you describe your "secret crush", what is your information about?

his physique, his character (a particular talent, quality, defect, ...) his family (his name, his brothers and sisters, ...), ...

FOR FURTHER :

• For you, when you say someone is your best friend, what particular details allow you to say that? What do you know of a person that makes you say they're your best friend?

#Friendship #donation

• A free gift: friendship is a free, disinterested gift. who does not seek first his own interest, nor his own pleasure. It's a friendship that respects the other

In college, when I'm friends with someone just because they can do me a favor by tutoring me, is that a real friendship? This person is not a real friend.

• A reciprocal gift: in friendship, to give you need someone who welcomes and to welcome you need someone who gives. We share things together. These are simple things, for example a coke, a sport, the same class at school, ...), or more interior things (ways of life, character traits that go well together, religious ideas , ...).

Example: I am having family difficulties. My parents argue, my father drinks too much alcohol and my brother wants to work in Thailand. I don't know what to do anymore, I need to share my pain, my doubts, my questions. In secret, I tell my friend about it. I share with him questions that are important to me.

The deepest sharing is the one that touches my "inner self": my joys, my sorrows, my personal story: with my friend, I can be really ME, in truth, beyond appearances without fear of being judged. , without fear of being laughed at.

Good advice: The more valuable what I share, the greater my friendship.